Vian

Yep i recommended her against it. Especially because she's new to the business. Also for guys, it's a risk whether or not there's chemistry.

But it seems it worked out well for the both of you. So thanks very much for treating her well! :-)

I would never do an overnight with a girl that I don’t know, just like I’d never do dinner as a first date, because if there isn’t chemistry then it sux and bailing is awkward. But glad it worked out for you. I recently arranged a 2 hour appointment and the date was going so well that I converted it to an overnight. Anyway, thanks for the report. I actually would have liked more details about her. I am on the fence about seeing her.

@IT Guy, are you gonna do a photo shoot for Una and Vlan, or are their current pics accurate enough? They seem photoshopped and not high quality pics to me. Thanks.

@mid: Sorry, these are actually pictures of the photoshoots we've done with them. Sometimes photoshoots don't turn out that well i guess.

For now I'm not going to reshoot them though; maybe in the future.

@Mid yeah I’m hindsight an overnight was full on, especially as did it before with someone new to me and that went wrong in all ways, but Vian pictures ticked my boxes so I ignored my brain. Not sure about what specifics, but for my part I’m not a young buck so don’t have ‘wreck-it-Ralph’ mode, and I’m not gifted with an elephants 5th leg, so this might have influenced the intimate time. She looks exactly like her photos, she was a little shy to begin with, but I treated her gently not going full on and she warmed nicely. As it was overnight I treated as a GF, went out for meal, took a stroll in town, and she returned the sentiment by giving me GFE (hold hands, casual chat like old friends), so all in all a great night

@ITGuy, okay, I guess the pics are good enough. Looking at them again, I guess it’s Una’s pics that aren’t great. Hard to get a good read on her face and bod. I guess I feel stung because a while back I met Amy’s friend Cherry (not original Cherry) and she was so gross and way way different from her pics which she provided.

@mid: I'm very sorry. Amy and Cherry's pictures were *not* done by us; and that was also the last time I will allow girls to arrange their own photo shoots. I mean, yes, the pictures from our photo shoots are photoshopped; but the pictures some of the girls gave me, are photoshopped to such extend that I didn't recognize the girls themselves anymore when I met them. Which pissed me off myself; so one criteria now for any new girl is to do a photoshoot with our photographer. No discussion. At least the photo's will be more consistent.

@RLS, very kind of you to reply to me. Thanks, man. Anyway, my main concerns with overnight (with an unknown) is that many of these girls smoke and so they become jittery and anxious, and so they are horrible to sleep next to, and second, many of these girls wake up around noon, and so they just play with their phones until 3am.

@ITGuy, nothing to be sorry about. I knew they were her pics, so I knew it was buyer beware. And that’s an awesome policy to only use your photo shoot’s pics.

@Mid least I can do, happy to reply, plus your comments on ISG have been insightful to me on my adventures. For the smoking part, yes it is in profile but I also have the bad habit so not a problem for me. However, during the date she did ask if I minded, so she was ready to not do, as a note we only had one ciggie all night. On staying awake I can’t comment purely because being an airforce kid living next to an airfield I can sleep through an earthquake. If she was awake late it didn’t affect me. She did check her phone a few times during the date, but not to a point that i found annoying (I check my phone when I’m working, so I cut a little slack on this one, unless of course the girl is on the phone when I want attention in which case not happy)