Cherry

Apologies about your bad experience; I'm not sure what her explanation was towards you.

My understanding is that there might be an issue with expectation here. Cherry and all the other girls here, are not doing this as a full-time job. All of them are quite busy with a regular job, regular life activities, etcetera. This is just an additional income for them.

So these girls, they appreciate clear, brief, to-the-point communication. Information regarding prices, etc, can be found right here on the website. The girls just prefer you tell them, when and where you'd like to meet them; without any further hassle, change in schedule, etc; as they also plan in the meeting in their schedule.

Send a girl too many messages; ask them too many (repetitive) questions; take too long to confirm appointments; etc; the girls will lower the priority they give towards you. Time is valuable to them as well.

Please understand as well, that there are plenty of other guys who are wasting their time; ask 101 questions; then don't make an appointment. Or worse, make an appointment and then ghosts them.

@Brucewayne; I did not see the communication you had with Cherry; so I don't know how much of this really applies to your case; but basically this is what I understood from her point of view. I think if you want to try again with her; just be brief and suggest a date, time and location.

Or give it a short with one of the other girls. (But above applies to them as well! Keep it short and to the point!)

I've known Cherry for several years. She is reliable most of the time. She currently has a full time job, working 9-5 on M-F and sometimes on weekends too. It seems like Friday and Saturday nights are when she is mostly available now. But she has been busier than usual because more guys are meeting her and also because her social life seems to have picked up too. I agree with IT Guy. Just send her a short note with day, time, and location. Nothing more. She has no time to answer questions and to chat. She keeps two phones and has at least two WeChat accounts. And she may only be looking at her WeChat account that she uses for us only a few times per day. There will be times when she will say that she cannot meet at a certain time that you want, but then just ask her what time is convenient for her and work around her schedule. If you feel entitled to see her whenever you want, it is not going to work out. She is one of the most popular and sought after people in Shanghai. You need to work around her schedule to see her. My two cents.

@brucewayne: BTW. I still wanted to say I do appreciate your feedback!!

Unfortunately, it seems that Cherry has got a little unreliable which seems to be a recent phenomenon. I've met her in the past and it was never an issue. Recently, my appointment was also cancelled at the last minute. I hope it's a passing phase for her because bits really great seeing her, when it works out!