Vian 回来了。

I didn't notice Vian's restriction on "no native Chinese" earlier - I messaged her but she wasn't available on my dates. Was that a soft rejection? (I'm ethnically Chinese but not from China.)

matamata

I didn't notice Vian's restriction on "no native Chinese" earlier - I messaged her but she wasn't available on my dates. Was that a soft rejection? (I'm ethnically Chinese but not from China.)

With native Chinese, we mean Chinese that live in China. If you're not from China, she has no issues with you. She's a pretty straightforward girl. Just tell her you're ethnically Chinese but you don't live here. You always get a long way with girls, by just being polite!