Hello! No new girls at the moment. (although, soon another one of...
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Hello!
No new girls at the moment. (although, soon another one of Lily's friends will join). But there's something I just need to mention again.
One of the girls had an unfortunate situation yesterday at the hotel of a customer. Due to miscommunication or misunderstanding, the guy did not pick her up in a short time; she had to wait for awhile downstairs in the lobby. Because she was waiting for a guy for an extended period of time, she attracted the attention of the hotel personnel. She freaked out, asked for taxi money from the customer, and left. Unfortunately the customer took this the wrong way, and blamed her for cheating.
I always advice the girls, at all times, if they feel uncomfortable in the situation, to leave. We all know how risky this business is in Shanghai; and no one wants to attract attention and get caught.
So I apologize to the guy; but these things happen.
When you guys make an appointment with the girl, please:Make sure you know whether elevators need a room key; if they do, please clearly describe where you will pick up the girl ..Don't make the girls wait; the longer they are out there in the lobby, restaurant or bar, the riskier it gets ..Sometimes unfortunately these things happen; please act as an gentleman, and I am sure her, you and me can resolve it in one way or the other ..
Fortunately, I don't often hear about these cases. So I do thank the guys who are keeping this in mind.
Take care!
P.S. @Panpancosco; Expo is finished :-)
No new girls at the moment. (although, soon another one of Lily's friends will join). But there's something I just need to mention again.
One of the girls had an unfortunate situation yesterday at the hotel of a customer. Due to miscommunication or misunderstanding, the guy did not pick her up in a short time; she had to wait for awhile downstairs in the lobby. Because she was waiting for a guy for an extended period of time, she attracted the attention of the hotel personnel. She freaked out, asked for taxi money from the customer, and left. Unfortunately the customer took this the wrong way, and blamed her for cheating.
I always advice the girls, at all times, if they feel uncomfortable in the situation, to leave. We all know how risky this business is in Shanghai; and no one wants to attract attention and get caught.
So I apologize to the guy; but these things happen.
When you guys make an appointment with the girl, please:Make sure you know whether elevators need a room key; if they do, please clearly describe where you will pick up the girl ..Don't make the girls wait; the longer they are out there in the lobby, restaurant or bar, the riskier it gets ..Sometimes unfortunately these things happen; please act as an gentleman, and I am sure her, you and me can resolve it in one way or the other ..
Fortunately, I don't often hear about these cases. So I do thank the guys who are keeping this in mind.
Take care!
P.S. @Panpancosco; Expo is finished :-)
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Sorry to hear about what happened. Occasionally these things just go wrong. Glad to hear about Lily bringing in a new friend! I will definitely report on this one, much like with Una! :-)
Since Expo is finished are the clubs open?
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@Sean: At least Judy's is open again yes.
I think customers forget they're not the only one at risk. I have greeted girls outside the hotel in the past and wherever i am I pay attention to the route to my room plus the stairway and where the reception and lifts are and any side doors, everything to minimise the risk for both of us. Maybe that can be written/added on an etiquette page? The dos and don'ts.
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@shortstay - I agree with you about the fact the girls also are often at risk. One of the things I do is to ask the girls to dress casually (jeans/hoodie etc) when they come to my apartment because they will just blend in as regular and to let me know when they are close so I can go pick them up.
Using the wechat "Real time location" is a great way of doing it.
Using the wechat "Real time location" is a great way of doing it.
It seems like a good idea to meet outside and give girl another so she can come up alone. Has worked well for me.
Yes, these girls are nervous, especially when meeting a client for the first time. So, always think about how to make it easy on them the first time you meet. Meeting outside is a good idea. Meeting on an accessible floor in the hotel, such as the 2nd floor which usually doesn't require a key card for large hotels, is also a good idea. Or just regularly exchange messages as she is arriving. If she is messaging you and your don't reply back immediately, it will spook her.
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Absolutely agree It Guy. It is our responsibility as well to ensure that the girls feel safe.
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